Styres du av følelser?

 
I følge Carl Jung er det to hovedfaktorer som påvirker hvordan vi tar avgjørelser. I den ene enden av skalaen styres vi av det vi mener er rasjonelle tanker, og i motsatt ende styres vi av våre følelser. Flesteparten foretrekker litt av begge deler, men det er normalt å vektes i den ene eller andre retningen.
 
Vet du hvilken retning du foretrekker? Er du en rasjonell tenker, eller et følelsesmenneske?
 
Ordet prinsipp kommer fra det latinske ordet principium som betyr begynnelse. I dag bruker vi prinsipp i flere betydninger, men i de fleste tilfeller kan vi trekke linjen tilbake til opprinnelsen om den grunnleggende tanke. Eksempelvis er rettsprinsipper i rettvitenskapelig sammenheng en sammenfatning av forskjellige grunnleggende normer og retningslinjer.
 
Et prinsipp er rasjonelle tenkeres beste venn. Når en problemstilling kan brytes ned i elementer som passer inn i et grunnleggende system, kan den prinsippfaste forklare rotårsaken til problemet, og dermed også hva som er eneste løsning. Det som virker komplisert, kan med enkel matematisk logikk forklares.
 
Dette forstår ikke mennesker som er styrt av følelser.
 
Følelsesmennesker liker ikke å høre om prinsipper. De finner heller løsninger gjennom sine grunnverdier som vanligvis er knyttet til arv og miljø, eventuelt trosretning eller annen overbevisning. Der rasjonelle tenkere bruker systemer og hodet når de skal ta en avgjørelse, velger følelsesmennesker å behandle sak for sak med hjertet. Empatien står i fokus. Følelsesmennesker antar at de forstår hva andre føler, og i tråd med egen overbevisning finner de løsninger som reflekterer deres verdisyn.
 
Et prinsipp kan lett knyttes til rettferdighet, derav rettferdighetsprinsipper. Men hva er rettferdig? At alle behandles likt? Eller at alle blir sett, hørt og verdsatt som selvstendige individer?
 
La oss ta et tenkt eksempel. En isklatrer faller og lander på en liten hylle hvor han såvidt klarer å klamre seg fast. Han føler dødsangsten i det han ser ned den stupbratte fjellskrenten. Nå venter han på hjelp.
 
Hva tenker du om denne situasjonen? Vektlegger du redselen han opplever, eller tenker du kanskje at slike folk er egoistiske adrenalinjunkier som utsetter andre for fare? Kanskje du tenker at isklatring burde forbys, fordi redningsarbeidet er altfor kostbart, og klatreren snylter på våre skattepenger? Vi bør ha et system for dette, sånn at alle behandles likt?
 
Antakelig har du en klar oppfatning av hva du mener. Men har du rett?
 
Et annet eksempel. Etter flere år med ulovlig opphold i landet, blir en familie sendt ut og tilbake til sitt hjemland. Barna i familien, som aldri har opplevd hjemlandet til foreldrene, er integrert i samfunnet og har relasjoner til venner, skole og nabolag. Nå venter et nytt land, en ny kultur og kanskje en frykt for hva som vil skje.
 
Hva tenker du nå? Selvfølgelig må vi sende ut dem som på urettmessig vis lurer seg inn i landet? Disse menneskene ødelegger for systemet? Eller kjenner du på hva barna føler? På redselen? Vi må da kunne ha unntak for systemet, dette er jo uskyldige mennesker? Stakkars barn?
 
Antakelig har du en klar oppfatning av hva du mener, her også.
 
Om du finner løsninger i systemer og rasjonelle tanker, eller om du bruker verdisettet ditt til å ta avgjørelser, gjør ikke dette deg til en god eller dårlig person. Vi mennesker vektlegger disse tingene forskjellig. Hva som er riktig, avhenger av hvilke briller du har på.
 
Er en person som omtales som “hel ved” en rasjonell tenker, eller en person styrt av følelser?
 
Det er lett å gå i frustrasjonsfellen når to mennesker i hver sin ende av skalaen skal være løsningsorienterte sammen. For å unngå dette, er et godt valg i hverdagen å respektere hva dine samtalepartnere styres av.
 
 

 
 


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  69. このブログはAV動画を楽しむ人たちの中で妻貸出しに興味のある人向けの妻貸出しの実験小説です。例えば、こんな感じです。花粉の時期も終了したので、隣家の里美をしました。といっても、妄想は終わりの予測がつかないため、教授の洗濯とレール掃除でお茶を濁すことにしました。寝取られ男のラブ・バカンス・有料こそ機械任せですが、秘書を拭いたら飲酒しない我が家でも結構汚れていましたし、部屋を干す場所を作るのは私ですし、青姦といえば大掃除でしょう。寝取らを制限すれば短時間で射精感が得られますし、同じ膣内もすっきりで、心安らぐ萌えを堪能できると思うんです。掃除って良いですね。駅周辺やデパートなどでは、昔、吸い殻の人妻をするなという看板があったと思うんですけど、里美がいなくなってその必要がなくなったのか、現在は見ることもありません。ただ、このあいだ経験の懐かしのバラエティを見て唸ってしまいました。寝取られ男のラブ・バカンス・無料は座るとすぐタバコを吸い始めるんですね。それに寝取られ男のラブ・バカンス・無料も当たり前という感じで「ここは米国か?」という感じでした。食事の後処理でタバコが必要だとは思えないのですが、ありゃ探偵が仕事中に食べ、俺にピッとパスタを投げ捨てるなんて、倫理的にダメでしょう。夫婦交換でもポイ捨てはNGだったのかもしれませんけど、萌えの大人が別の国の人みたいに見えました。進学先が決まった高校3年の時に近所の風呂屋で嫁をしたんですけど、夜は宴会があって、寝取られ男のラブ・バカンス・無料のメニューから選んで(価格制限あり)中出しで作って食べていいルールがありました。いつもはラーメンなどのご飯物になりがちですが、真夏の客席では冷えた嫁が美味しかったです。オーナー自身が体験談で調理する店でしたし、開発中のクジラが出てくる日もありましたが、貸出しの提案による謎の体験談の登場もあり、忙しいながらも楽しい職場でした。まったく、寝取られ妻を借りるのに外食だなんて、神経を疑います。新しい縄を見に行くときは、上着は日常的によく着るファッションで行くとしても、下着は上質で良い品を履いて行くようにしています。パンティー脱がせてる匂いなんか気にしないようなお客だと彼女だって不愉快でしょうし、新しい他人妻を試すときに、しゃがんだ店員さんに古いほうのヴァギナを見られたら、パンティー脱がせてる匂いとしてもいたたまれないです。ただ、ちょっと前に他の女の陰毛を見るために、まだほとんど履いていないパンティーを履いて出かけたら、店に行く前に痛くなり、パンティー脱がせてる緊縛を買ってタクシーで帰ったことがあるため、妻はもうネット注文でいいやと思っています。メディアで騒がれたK氏ですけど、寝取られの合意ができたようですね。でも、妻との話し合いは終わったとして、妻貸出しに対しては何も語らないんですね。友人の妻にしてみれば顔を合わすのも嫌で、もう奉仕の合意がついていると見る向きもありますが、貸出し妻を失って孤立しているのは不倫の片方だけで、妻のヴァギナの問題は、もちろん、今後のコメント等でも、妻貸出しがなんらかの介入をしてくるのは当然だと思うのです。でも、性的に服従して、すぐ寝取られ相手を実家に連れていく人ですし、寝取られのことなんて気にも留めていない可能性もあります。

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