Raus med vilje

 
Balanse er fasinerende. Arbeider du for eksempel med regnskap, er det naturlig å betegne balanse som en oversikt over bokførte verdier. Er du en turner eller en akrobat, driver du med balansekunst. Yoga-øvelser skal hjelpe deg til kroppslig og mental balanse, og sitter du fast i tidsklemma, kan du lese deg opp på “work life balance”. Dersom du hadde vært Isaac Newton, ville du funnet ut at “Til enhver kraft finnes det en like stor og motsatt rettet motkraft”. Vi tenker kanskje ikke så ofte over det, men balanse er noe vi finner overalt.
 
Når avvik oppstår, tenderer situasjonen ofte tilbake mot det normale, mot det gjennomsnittlige. Fysiske eller mentale krefter virker mot ubalansen, og normalsituasjonen forsøkes tilbakeført. Det er et av naturens sterkeste virkemidler, og da er det kanskje ikke rart at rettferdighetsbegrepet vårt også bærer preg av dette?
 
Det heter seg at du må gi for å få. Ingenting kommer gratis. “There ain’t no such thing as a free lunch”. Er du i en situasjon der du får noe, følger det implisitt at noen andre har hatt en intellektuell eller materiell kostnad, og ofte forventes det derfor en form for gevinst på “investeringen”. Med andre ord, du må gi noe tilbake. Det må skapes balanse.
 
Et klassisk eksempel er når en i vennegjengen spanderer en runde med øl. Du har fått, og før eller siden er det din tur til å gi tilbake. Gjør du det du skal, bekrefter du normen, og gruppen er fornøyd. Lar du være, bryter du spillets regler, med fare for å bli utelatt ved neste anledning.
 
Er det riktig at rettferdighet skal basere seg på balanse? Er vår tilsynelatende raushet bare et virkemiddel som trigger forventninger om å få noe tilbake? Gir vi med glede, eller gir vi og tenker -“what´s in it for me?”.
 
Motsetningen blir gjerne at vi tenker at rettferdighet er å dele på godene. La dem som har, gi til dem som ikke har. Vi tar utgangspunkt i ubalansen, i ulikhetene, og vil at folk skal gi etter evne. Det høres på mange måter riktig ut, men det kan fort bli feil det også. -“Jeg har så lite at det er rettferdig at andre gir mer enn meg!” – “Hvorfor skal jeg gi, når jeg har så lite fra før?”
 
Et godt valg i hverdagen er å være raus uten å bokføre det som egenkapital i balansen.
 
Gi med glede, uten å forvente noe tilbake,
og husk at raushet ikke måles i mengde eller evne, men i vilje.
 
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