Hvem er ditt sinte jeg?

 

Sinnataggen. Foto: Ukjent

 

Er du sint i blant? Det er lov. Det er faktisk helt normalt. Sinne er en følelse på lik linje med glede, hat, frykt og sorg. Når du føler sinne, er det fordi du tenker at noe er krenkende eller truende mot det som du tror på. Det som er ditt univers.
 
Hver eneste dag mottar hjernen din et enormt antall inntrykk, og for å unngå å bli gal, blir inntrykkene bevisst eller ubevisst sortert og strukturert fortløpende. Du grupperer inntrykkene slik at de utgjør en kontekst som du forstår og føler deg fortrolig med. For eksempel skiller du på hva du synes er bra eller ikke bra, hva som er riktig eller feil, hva som er rettferdig eller urettferdig, hva som er pent eller stygt og hva som er positivt eller negativt. Summen av alle dine personlige oppfattelser og meninger utgjør ditt univers. Et unikt univers som bare gjelder for deg.
 
Når du føler sinne, er det altså noe som rokker ved sannhetene som du har definert i ditt univers.
 
Når ble du sint sist? Husker du hvilke av dine sannheter som ble utfordret? Var det kanskje noe som du opplevde urettferdig?
 
Ikke vær bekymret om du kjenner at du er sint i blant, sinne er altså en naturlig følelse. Det som er viktigere å reflektere over, er hvordan du oppfører deg når det skjer.
 
Mange mennesker blir aggressive når de føler sinne. På samme måte som en forelskelse kan få blodet til å bruse, kan sinne gjøre det samme, men med helt annet resultat. Hvor mange ganger har vi ikke hørt om ungdommer som sloss på grunn av sjalusi, eller om bråk på puben fordi noen trosset noens meninger? Aggresjon oppleves for mange som en effektiv måte å ta tilbake kontrollen på, og dersom vi hadde levd slik som ville dyr i naturen, kunne nok det fungert. Men vi lever ikke slik. Vi lever i et sivilisert samfunn, og da er fysisk vold helt uakseptabelt.
 
Mange bruker derfor verbal utskjelling som våpen. Makt kan utvises gjennom høy stemme og stygge ord som sårer. Kanskje kombineres det med å smelle i dører og å kaste gjenstander. Noen bruker en skarp tunge og sprer syrlighet og stikk i siden. Andre velger det helt motsatte, nemlig å inneslutte seg, overse og demonstrere sin likegyldighet. Vonde alternativer alle sammen. Mange påpeker at de ikke er langsinte, men det har sannsynligvis liten betydning for dem som blir berørt.
 
Når noen føler sinne, hvordan skulle du ønske de oppførte seg?
 
Hvordan oppfører du deg?
 
Et godt valg i hverdagen er å reflektere over hvordan du vil oppføre deg når du er sint. Det er ikke enkelt å endre et allerede etablert handlingsmønster, men hvis du erkjenner at du har gjort feil frem til nå, er dette en god anledning til å gjøre en positiv endring i livet ditt. Kanskje du kan gjøre opp for de feilene du har gjort?
 
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