Duften av kjærlighet?


Vaffeldagen markeres i kantinen til Cegal
Foto: Frank Garneng

Duften av nystekte vafler er vidunderlig. Jeg lener hodet bakover og lukker øynene. Tanken gir meg vann i munnen, og jeg blir varm og glad. Hjemme hos oss elsker vi vafler. Duften av vafler minner om sene søndagsfrokoster hvor hele familien er samlet før vi drar ut på tur.
Jeg rører litt i gryten jeg har på komfyren. I kveld blir det Osso buco. Gryten med kalveskankene har stått på i flere timer, og jeg passer på mens jeg ser en krimserie på TV. Nede hører jeg min kjære komme hjem fra handleturen.
– “Å, så fantastisk det lukter”, utbryter hun. Hun henger av seg ytterklærene ute i gangen. “Dette gleder jeg meg til”.
Jeg smiler. Selv har jeg vært så lenge på kjøkkenet at jeg ikke kjenner duften lenger. Jeg bøyer hodet over gryten og trekker godt inn med nesen. Nei, det lukter nesten ingen ting, men det ser godt ut.
En underlig egenskap med dufter, er at vi både kan knytte følelser og minner til dem, samtidig som vi kan “overse” dufter som omgir oss her og nå.
Da du traff drømmemannen eller drømmekvinnen din, kjente du helt sikkert en varm og sterk følelse. Og tenker du tilbake på da dette skjedde, dukker sikkert minnene opp på netthinnen. Akkurat som med duften av vafler, skjer noe med deg når du tenker på det. Du begynner antakelig å smile, og varme følelser gjør deg glad. Kjærlige minner lagres i hjertet, og sammen med hjernen skapes gode følelser.
Hvis det er en stund siden du var sammen med din kjære, lengter du sannsynligvis etter kjærligheten dere deler. Er han eller hun derimot hos deg hele tiden, kan det være dere har begynt å ta hverandre for gitt. Dere går i samme eimen dag etter dag, og duften merkes ikke lenger. Kjærligheten er der fortsatt, men dere har nesten glemt den. Følelsene oppleves ikke lenger så varme og sterke, og smilet kommer ikke like naturlig.
Kanskje er kjærligheten litt som duften fra grytene? Litt borte? Du vet at den finnes, men du opplever den ikke?
Det finnes råd. Gi hverandre rom. Slipp kanarifuglen ut.
Et godt valg i hverdagen er å la kjærligheten bli som duften av nystekte vaffelhjerter.
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